Choosing to become a parent on your own is a big decision, but it is one that more and more people are making. Whether it is something you have always envisioned or a decision you arrived at after careful thought, there are safe and supportive options available to help you grow your family. At Demeter Fertility, we work with many single individuals who want to start their journey toward parenthood. Here are some of the most common treatment pathways available.
Intrauterine Insemination (IUI)
IUI is often the first option considered by single people with good overall reproductive health. In this process, donor sperm is inserted into the uterus around the time of ovulation to increase the chance of fertilisation. It is a relatively low-intervention, low-cost option compared to IVF and may be recommended depending on age, cycle regularity, and overall fertility.
In Vitro Fertilisation (IVF)
IVF may be a better option if there are other fertility factors at play, such as age-related egg quality, irregular cycles, or known fertility challenges. IVF involves stimulating the ovaries to produce multiple eggs, retrieving those eggs, and fertilising them with donor sperm in a lab. The embryo is then transferred into the uterus.
IVF allows for more control, including embryo testing if desired, and often has higher success rates, particularly for those in their mid-to-late 30s or older.
Donor Sperm or Eggs
If you are using IUI or IVF, you will need donor sperm. We can help you understand the process of choosing a donor, whether through an anonymous donor bank or a known donor. Some single parents also require donor eggs, depending on age or medical history. Our team supports you through each step, making sure you feel informed and confident.
Things to Consider
- Emotional readiness: Being a solo parent is rewarding but also demanding. A strong support network can make a big difference.
- Legal considerations: Using a known donor may involve legal steps. We can connect you with the right professionals.
- Financial planning: Fertility treatment can be costly, so it helps to plan ahead and understand your options.
You do not have to go through this alone. If you are considering parenthood as a single person, our team is here to support your journey with compassion, clarity, and care.